{"id":3497,"date":"2017-10-27T07:44:26","date_gmt":"2017-10-27T07:44:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/?p=3497"},"modified":"2017-11-06T13:35:55","modified_gmt":"2017-11-06T13:35:55","slug":"tom-french-on-writing-about-his-familys-ordeal-i-was-looking-for-the-smallest-measure-of-control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/tom-french-on-writing-about-his-familys-ordeal-i-was-looking-for-the-smallest-measure-of-control\/","title":{"rendered":"Tom French on writing about his family’s ordeal: I was looking for the smallest measure of control"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNormally Kelley and I write about other people\u2019s lives and we like that, because it seems less scary. But when our daughter was born in 2011, we found ourselves in the middle of a story of our own. Juniper was born at 23 weeks and 6 days, the limit of viability. The doctors gave us one night to make a decision and told us there would be an 80% chance of her dying or having a severe disability. We\u2019re journalists, we believe in information, so we were searching the web because we didn\u2019t want our child to suffer, we didn\u2019t want to be selfish. But let me tell you, you can find out more information about picking a toaster than how to save your baby.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Kelley and Tom decided to give Juniper a fighting chance and so they spent the next six months with her in the hospital, as she underwent several treatments and surgeries. Tom said those months \u201cwere easily the most harrowing and terrifying moments of our lives, but also the most transcendental\u201d. He took the audience through the family\u2019s personal journey, from the moment when touching or even looking at the small baby seemed wrong (\u201clike looking at a secret we\u2019re not supposed to see, like looking at God\u2019s pocket\u201d), to the support and advice offered by a generous nurse, to Juniper\u2019s setbacks and progress.<\/p>\n

\u201cAll I could see was how beautiful she was. I could see she was half-way through being formed, but I could also see so many possibilities.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Tom and Kelley bought her clothes from the local pet store – because tiny Chihuaua dresses were the only ones that fit -, played her Folsom Prison Blues and read from the Harry Potter books.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wanted her to have the sense of something unfolding, the power of the story. I thought she has no idea what\u2019s waiting for her if she makes it out of the hospital. For all she knows, this darkness and this pain were it. We wanted to convince her to hold on,\u201d he says of reading her stories.<\/p>\n

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As far as working on the book, Tom admitted he kept taking notes while Juniper was in the hospital, but never with the idea of writing a book. \u201cI was looking for the smallest measure of control you can achieve. I got it into my head that if I learned all the names of the nurses, the machines, their pets\u2019 names – it helped me get into a little bit of a reporting mode,\u201d Tom said.<\/p>\n

Juniper is now a joyful, healthy six year-old girl, whose story caught J.K. Rowling\u2019s eye<\/a> and melted the entire internet with their warm exchange.<\/p>\n

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The Romanian translation of Juniper was published by Editura Publica in October 2017. The book launch was part of the #Story17 Festival organized by The Power of Storytelling during 16 – 22 October.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cNormally Kelley and I write about other people\u2019s lives and we like that, because it seems less scary. But when our daughter was born in 2011, we found ourselves in the middle of a story of our own. Juniper was born at 23 weeks and 6 days, the limit of viability. The doctors gave us … Continue reading Tom French on writing about his family’s ordeal: I was looking for the smallest measure of control<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3502,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[24],"tags":[128,142],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3497"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3497"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3497\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3538,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3497\/revisions\/3538"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3502"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}