{"id":2270,"date":"2016-08-16T18:30:43","date_gmt":"2016-08-16T18:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/?p=2270"},"modified":"2017-07-01T15:18:52","modified_gmt":"2017-07-01T15:18:52","slug":"jacqui-banaszynski-on-the-courage-of-telling-stories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/jacqui-banaszynski-on-the-courage-of-telling-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"Jacqui Banaszynski on the courage of telling stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Journalism wasn\u2019t Jacqui Banaszynski\u2019s first career choice. She had aspirations to be an athlete, but grew up before Title IX gave girls equal access to the field. She dreamed of being a commercial airline pilot or astronaut, but was handicapped by height and gender. She probably should have been an architect, but in her rural school district in the 1960s, girls weren\u2019t allowed into shop class where she would have learned drafting. So she joined the high school newspaper staff, got the keys to the school car and went to find stories.<\/p>\n<p>She spent the next 30 years as a reporter and editor for newspapers in the Upper Midwest and Pacific Northwest. She has filed stories from all seven continents, including Antarctica. She has covered beauty pageants and popes, AIDS and the Olympics, dogsled expeditions and refugee camps. She came of age in the modern women\u2019s movement, covered some of its crucible events and benefited from the battles fought on behalf of women everywhere.<\/p>\n<p>She won the 1988 Pulitzer Prize in feature writing for an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.twincities.com\/1987\/06\/21\/aids-in-the-heartland-chapter-i\/\">intimate series<\/a> on a gay farm couple dying of AIDS, and was a finalist for the 1986 Pulitzer Prize in international reporting for her on-the-ground coverage of the famine in sub-Saharan Africa. She now is a Knight Chair professor at the Missouri School of Journalism and an editing fellow at the Poynter Institute. She coaches reporters, writers and editors around the world.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/MtE1MOqfRx8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Since she\u2019s been coming to The Power of Storytelling, Jacqui told us stories, taught us about craft, gave us multiple tips on writing, but mostly she inspired us. We collected some of the things she taught us about the courage of telling stories:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Ask the question<\/strong>. Simply because it\u2019s important. \u201cI think it\u2019s important to keep asking the question, because in our world the questions are much more important than the answers.\u201d But also because people want to share their stories. \u201cMost people want to talk about their loved ones. They want a chance to be heard and to help you get it right. So don\u2019t make that decision for people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Don\u2019t<strong> presume.<\/strong> Ask the questions even if you think they\u2019re inappropriate. The people you need answers from might not share the same idea. They might even be glad they can finally tell that story. \u201cThe thing I learned about these kinds of questions is not to presume that people don\u2019t want to talk about it. Not to presume that you\u2019re protecting people by projecting your own discomfort. Not to presume that there are things too personal or too private to ask about. When I asked him about his last conversation with his wife, he responded in a very interesting way and I need to tell you that this was a man that did not want to be interviewed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Be patient.<\/strong> Don\u2019t expect your stories to peak the analytics numbers, to change systems or people the day they\u2019ve been published, but trust them and be patient. They have a greater power. \u201cDon\u2019t let the stories get away. Let the stories touch you. Dare to believe that your stories, well told, will touch others. They\u2019ll start as a small plunk, a little tiny drop in an eternal ocean, a second in endless time, they will ripple out, they will reach forward, they will reach backwards, they will connect us with our history, they will reach forward to help us create hope. Maybe they will change our understanding of something, maybe they will show us a new view, maybe they will challenge us about what we thought was true, maybe they will open our minds, maybe they will touch our souls, maybe they will change our hearts.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So have the courage to wait for and trust a story, because \u201cstories touch the world: you can\u2019t measure them, there are no analytics, but if you watch and you wait, things happen.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2022\u00a0Be<strong> creative<\/strong>. Keep your curiosity sparkling, and find new ways of finding stories, of telling and keeping them in the attention of your audience. Creativity is in the details: \u201cAsk people to show you photos. An amazing thing happens when you ask to see a picture. People will tell you stories about what\u2019s going on in the picture.\u201d Or \u201cchoose details that don\u2019t just describe, but that reveal. And to really look, look hard at what\u2019s around you and see it, really see it, don\u2019t just assume it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Have compassion.<\/strong> And last, and probably one of the most desired traits for a human being, have compassion. \u201cOur stories aren\u2019t just part of a timeline, they\u2019re part of human legacy. They are the things that connect generations, they connect geography, they connect culture, and they connect ethnicity and race. So care about the subjects of your story, care about the people who receive and hear those stories, and care about your own craft, care about what you do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the end, it\u2019s all about being human: \u201cIf you do any form of storytelling or communication for a living, whether you\u2019re documentary filmmaker or a songwriter or a communications expert at a company, or a journalist, your job is not just to go through life, notice things, maybe let life happen to you. Your job is to see the story and share the story, because the story is the reflection of the continuum that we are and that we live as human beings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2RmXFOQr2lA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/registration\/\">Register\u00a0here\u00a0<\/a>for the 6th edition of The Power of Storytelling to be charmed and inspired by Jacqui once again.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Journalism wasn\u2019t Jacqui Banaszynski\u2019s first career choice. She had aspirations to be an athlete, but grew up before Title IX gave girls equal access to the field. She dreamed of being a commercial airline pilot or astronaut, but was handicapped by height and gender. She probably should have been an architect, but in her rural &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/jacqui-banaszynski-on-the-courage-of-telling-stories\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Jacqui Banaszynski on the courage of telling stories<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2271,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[24],"tags":[60,112],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2270"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3066,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions\/3066"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thepowerofstorytelling.org\/edition-2018\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}